For as long as I can remember, I’ve known I’ve wanted to be a mum. Now there’s no sob story here, just in a same sex relationship so things are more difficult. Now is the right time to pursue it. We’re in a good stable place. But we obviously have to go through other means.
So I’ve already had tests done. Everything seems in order. Obviously the loose weight conversation came up – “Don’t let your BMI to increase at all”. So now we wait…
Wait for approval to donate eggs. My girlfriend asked how I’d feel, if they got pregnant and we didn’t. But do you know what. If I could help someone fullfil their dream, the same dream as mine, then I want to, because God forbid I couldn’t myself then I would need help from someone else.
The next is to wait for things to return to ‘normal’.
Finally is to wait for donor sperm.